| | |  | Privacy | Home » » » Safety for Stalking Victims: How to save your privacy, your sanity, and your life | | | | | | | Description: | | Stalking is a serious crime that disproportionately affects and endangers women. The National Institute of Justice says one in every 12 women and one in every 20 men will be stalked in their lifetimes.Some stalkers make phone calls, send messages, or deliver "gifts." Some follow their victims home, vandalize property, make threats, or kill pets. Some stalkers even attempt rape, kidnapping, or murder. And some succeed. Being the target of an obsessed person is a frightening experience. But it isn't necessary to live in fear. Learning how to live safely is the key.Topics include:Who stalks, who is stalked, and whyEvaluating the seriousness of the situationReplacing terror with sensible precautionsRestraining ordersgood or bad?Disappearingwhy, when and howProtecting your childrenSelf-defensewhat works, what doesntSafety on a budgetMaintaining your privacyStrategies that don't workHelpful web sites and organizationsUsing scenarios based on real stalking cases, this book overflows with detailed, practical strategies to put you in control of your situation, and let you break the cycle of terror.Mistakes by the legal system, employers, or even family members can make the situation worse. If you work with stalking victims, or are concerned about one, you need this information, too. | | | Product Details: | | | Author:
| Lyn Bates | | Paperback:
| 236 pages | | Publisher:
| iUniverse | | Publication Date:
| June 26, 2001 | | Language:
| English | | ISBN:
| 0595181600 | | Product Length:
| 9.22 inches | | Product Width:
| 6.14 inches | | Product Height:
| 0.57 inches | | Product Weight:
| 0.79 pounds | | Package Length:
| 8.8 inches | | Package Width:
| 6.0 inches | | Package Height:
| 0.7 inches | | Package Weight:
| 0.75 pounds | | Average Customer Rating:
|  based on 3 reviews |
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10 of 13 found the following review helpful:
Valuable and Meticulous Resource on StalkingNov 28, 2001
This book is a well written guide for anyone involved in the trauma of stalking--and not just the kind you see in those lame TV movies. In addition to providing victims with checklists, how-tos and what-not-to-dos, this would also be a good book for anyone who who knows someone in trouble--significant others, co-workers, family and friends. Bates' opinions are backed up with no-nonsense reasoning and this would also be an excellent book for anyone who writes fiction and wants to use a stalking plot. Each chapter builds the "story" of stalking, from recognizing its signs to coming away safe and each is presented in a useful way, highlighting action items the victim can take to stay safe.
1 of 1 found the following review helpful:
Full of sound advice.Sep 08, 2011
By LM
"bas1a"
This is readable and practical and genuine.
It is for the classic police-acknowledged single-stalker situation mostly. It is less appropriate for exceptional stalking situations where there are a bunch of people involved (group stalking, cause stalking or organised stalking...) It is, however, useful for those too.
Stalking brings stress, even if you are the firm confident sort. The stress can make you forget whole bits of self-protection that you really do know. That's when you need a book like this. It reminds you of those basics and suggests a few new ones.
For cause stalking, a good book is David Lawson's "Cause Stalking" which is pocketbook-sized, brisk, and to the point, with lots of good advice. Furthermore, it has helpful insights into why a group might be doing this to you. The man who wrote it comes from a background both of investigating and getting close to organised stalking groups.
Don't forget the web-based discussion groups, too, which, though they can be riddled with phonies, plants, idiots and pretenders, have some people of astonishing ability who can be a lifeline.
Lyn Knows her Subject!Aug 21, 2008
By Skip Coryell
I ran across this book while writing my latest novel. One of my main characters was being stalked by a serial killer and I needed to know how stalkers operate. Lyn's book told me all I needed to know. I highly recommend it.
--Skip Coryell--
Author of "Blood in the Streets: Concealed Carry and the OK Corral"
Blood in the Streets
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